Interviews
“How to Deal with Neighbors”
Level
High-intermediate
Pre-Listening Activity
- Vocabulary Exploration:
- Divide the class into pairs or small groups and provide them with a list of vocabulary words/phrases from the interview, such as “neighbor complaints,” “confrontation,” “anonymous report,” “defer to,” “pickleball court,” etc.
- Ask students to discuss the meanings of these words and phrases based on context clues or prior knowledge.
- Encourage them to predict how these terms might be used in the interview and how they relate to the topic of neighbor complaints.
- Discussion: Ethical Dilemmas:
- Present students with hypothetical scenarios related to neighbor complaints, such as a neighbor consistently playing loud music late at night, a neighbor leaving their dog outside in extreme weather conditions, or a neighbor installing a noisy recreational facility like a pickleball court.
- In pairs or small groups, have students discuss how they would respond to each scenario, considering ethical considerations, legal implications, and personal values.
- Encourage students to share their opinions and reasoning with the class, fostering a respectful exchange of ideas and perspectives.
Vocabulary and Expressions
Here are some words and expressions that appear in the video:
- confrontation (noun): a situation where people or groups oppose each other and argue or fight
– Emily avoids confrontation with her neighbors by choosing to address issues indirectly. - defer (verb): to postpone or delay something
– I want to defer the decision about reporting the noisy neighbors until we talk with them directly. - minor (adjective): small in importance, seriousness, or significance
– The noise from our neighbor’s yard is a minor annoyance. Don’t worry about it. They are just having a party. - investigate (verb): to examine or inquire into systematically
– We need to investigate our neighbor’s complaints before taking action. Don’t call the police until we learn more. - important (adjective): having great significance or value
– Understanding and communicating with neighbors is important to resolve conflicts peacefully.
Listening Comprehension Questions
Now, watch the interview and answer the comprehension questions. You can also turn on the automatically-generated captions for the video once you start it.
Transcript
Randall: In this video, Emily, let us talk about neighbor complaints. You have a house. I have a house. And sometimes these things might come up. But how would you respond in each of these situations? And let’s start with a barking dog. How would you respond to a barking dog next door?
Emily: I think . . . it . . . a lot of it depends on the circumstance. Is the dog barking all night long, every night, or is it on occasion? If it’s barking every night, all night long, I might be a little bit concerned about its welfare.
Randall: Oh, okay.
Emily: And checking in, possibly anonymously, with animal control. I’m really bad at confrontation, so I probably wouldn’t directly approach the neighbor in this situation.
Randall: All right. So you mentioned you wouldn’t automatically call 911. You would probably look into the situation. Is that what you mean?
Emily: Yeah. Yeah. If it’s [the dog] been outside for a few minutes or even a few hours and it just . . . it’s kind of a noisy dog, that’s one thing. But if it’s locked in a cage twenty-four seven and it’s the middle of winter, I would probably get animal control involved.
Randall: Okay. Good point. How about loud music? Loud music going on till like 2 a.m. every night? Not only music, but cars coming in and out next door. How about that?
Emily: I would probably defer to my husband to go ask the neighbor to please keep it down.
Randall: Okay. And they’re can’t. . . We’re not talking about situations like celebrations. Maybe there’s a wedding wedding reception going on. I’m talking about something that happens every single night. So get your husband involved.
Emily: Yeah.
Randall: Okay, here’s the next one that is becoming more and more popular. It’s pickleball. And if you ever heard those, you know, I mean, those balls, it’s not like tennis, but they make a lot of noise. What about that? If you have a pickleball court right in the park right next to you, anything you can do?
Emily: Well, I feel like in that situation, you moved into that house knowing the pickleball court was there. One of the things you’re just going to have to deal with.
Randall: Yeah, but what if it’s something like you have a neighbor that they decide to put a pickleball court in their backyard?
Emily: That’s still their property. And I feel like for something that minor, I would probably just ignore it.
Randall: 2 a.m. pickleball.
Emily: I hope I’m asleep.
Randall: Well, thank you, Emily, for sharing some of those things. And I think we just need to keep in mind that some of those things happen once in a while, and investigating and putting some time into understanding your neighbor, I think is really important.
Conversation Questions
Intermediate
- What are some examples of neighbor complaints discussed in the interview?
- How does Emily prefer to handle confrontational situations with her neighbors?
- What does Randall emphasize about investigating neighbor complaints?
- In what situations does Emily suggest involving external authorities like animal control or the police?
Advanced:
- Reflecting on Emily’s responses, how might cultural or societal norms influence people’s approaches to resolving neighbor disputes?
- What ethical considerations arise when deciding how to address neighbor complaints, particularly in cases involving animal welfare or noise disturbances?
- How might communication strategies such as mediation or negotiation be employed to resolve conflicts between neighbors effectively?